Somethings seem like they should be a certain way but just aren’t really what they seem
You can justify or satisfy your whims by finding reasons they must be true or real or necessity.
Like leaning on your own understanding.
Only God sees the big picture. Sometimes things are a trap from satan.
He pulls you in and tricks you into being in his will and not Gods.
The devil has you hide your head in the sand to not hear truth.