The word of God actually says
“Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory” (Col. 3:1–4)
The world says you’re so heavenly minded you’re not earthly good. It totally contradicts the word of God. So don’t follow the way of the world follow the word!
In the book of Proverbs it talks about cords of a harlot that bind you to hell. It’s described in Proverbs 5 and 7. Harlotry is unfaithfulness to God. When we walk in purity we are the bride of Christ. Mark 10:8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. This passage describes how the two became one. When the couple engages it causes them to be tied together where they are no longer viewed as two but one.
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” Genesis 2:24
These ties are formed at it’s strongest from sexual encounters. Could even be from masterbating thinking of someone. But sometimes form from emotional ones ties. You bond in an ungodly way not blessed by God.
It’s number one cause of divorces I believe. The marriages were formed around lust not love and those are the hardest to endure life’s test together. Couples that have genuine love for each other stay together. Love endures all.
From my own experience I recognized these types of relationship caused extreme jealousy. On both sides along with a lot of confusion. These dynamics would form over time. When you’re in true love there’s a security. Insecurity is from the person’s recognizing in their spirit they aren’t suppose to be together but you won’t let go because you’ve become chemically addicted to each other. Sexual relationships are like drugs, they become addicting with body chemistries. The lust endorphins released feel good just like a drug, feels good but it so bad.
It causes violence in some relationships. In others an instability of the spirit realm that is so disruptive. You’ve seen those couples that just don’t get along.
Some people have had sex before marriage but have true love and still encounter problems because they were immoral before marriage. Unless they repent some will have trouble in their flesh. I heard a testimony of a woman that had seizures. She was seeking a deliverance ministry to get to the root of the disease. It was revealed with a word of knowledge(minister was able to hear from the Holy Spirit what the issue was he gave knowledge) in her ministry session that the condition came from her having sex before marriage. She and her husband were strong Christians and knew better. So it caused an open door for the devil to afflict her on such a strong level. The only power the enemy has is what we give him. The minister asked her if she had been immoral before her marriage. She said yes but we are married now why would that harm me? It was because they both knew better and rebelled. Once she repented admitted it was wrong to do, the minister cast the devil out that affilcted her it no longer had a legal right.
In some circumstances people have become suicidal. The person was so emotionally and physically addicted they felt they couldn’t go on without the other person in their life.
The only way to untie is by God doing it through repentence.
Are you tied ungodly? Seek the Lord to break the tie.